My first introduction to lesbianism was when I was 7 or 8 - Nigerian lady writes as she advices parents to be watchful and mindful of their kids

A Nigerian lady has urged parents to be watchful and mindful of their kids as she recounted how she was introduced to lesbianism at the age of 7 or 8. 

 

According to @ebeletheservant, her struggle with masturbation and pornography also began at that age as her parents will let them play in the compound unsupervised. 

 

She tweeted; 

 

My first introduction to lesbianism was when I was 7 or 8. It was with the neighbour's kids. It first started with the normal "mummy and daddy" plays and before we knew it, we were getting under sheets and touching ourselves inappropriately.

This was also how my struggle with masturbation and pornography began. Our parents would let us play with the kids in the compound and, as long as there were no physical injuries or anything of that sort, they let us play "unsupervised."

They were probably thinking "they are just children. What harm could possibly be done?" I do not blame them at all. Because when they were young like we were at that age, the only kinds of play they knew involved stones, catapults, singing etc. No one was getting under sheets.

But things are not that way anymore. It hurts my heart to say that it is a RARE thing to find an 'innocent' six year old. And I can say this because I had the privilege to teach both primary and secondary school children for a number of years.

You need to hear some of the things these children say. You would be shocked at some of the things they know. The devil is really working overtime, and he's very particular about children. If he can catch them young then he can control what kind of adults they become.

I want parents and guardians (teachers inclusive) to be very mindful of the children in their care. Be very watchful. Don't just send them out to play because they're making noise and you want to be alone. Go out often and observe. Ask them questions about their play.

Be interested in them. Don't always say "I'm tired" whenever they invite you to join them to play. Join them sometimes. Find out what kind of languages they use when they play. Observe their body movements and how they interact with one another.

If you notice anything that causes you to raise your eyebrows, don't just write it off and say, "they're just children. It doesn't mean anything." Correct IMMEDIATELY. And most importantly, pray for these children. I mean it. Your prayers will get to places your eyes won't.

May God give us the wisdom we need to be proper stewards.

Gunmen abduct traditional ruler, four boat passengers in Rivers

Gunmen suspected to be kidnappers have abducted the traditional ruler of Ikuru town in Andoni Local Government Area of Rivers State, HRM Aarom Ikuru. 

The palace spokesperson, Mr Maurice Ikuru, who confirmed the incident on Monday morning, February 22, said the monarch was kidnapped at about 8:30 to 9pm on Sunday, February 21.

 

Meanwhile, spokesperson of the State Police Command, Nnamdi Omoni, disclosed that some boat travellers, including a lecturer at the University of Port Harcourt, who were returning to Port Harcourt from Andoni were kidnapped by gunmen suspected to be pirates. 

 

"I can confirm that some persons who were coming back from Andoni were ambushed and kidnapped. Investigation is on-going to get the details,” Omoni stated.

Toke Makinwa reveals what she thinks of whenever she sees a pregnant woman

Toke Makinwa via her Twitter handle revealed what she thinks whenever she sees a pregnant woman.

 

Her tweet reads

''Every time I see a pregnant lady, all I imagine is all the positions that got her here, you’ve been doing the nasty My mind is crazy I know''

 

Her followers concurred as they disclose they also think in the same line whenever they see pregnant women.

 

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West Splits

 Kim Kardashian has filed for divorce from Kanye West after months of media speculation around the status of their marriage, a court official confirmed to Vulture. According to TMZ, who first reported the news, Kardashian is filing for joint custody and has agreed to a prenup, with the outlet dubbing the split as “amicable as a divorce can be.” The couple is also working on dividing their properties, given the complicated ownership of their Calabasas home. They married in May 2014 after dating for two years, and they have four children together: 7-year-old North, 5-year-old Saint, 3-year-old Chicago, and 21-month-old Psalm. According to gossip reports, West’s failed 2020 presidential run strained the couple’s marriage, especially after West divulged private details about their marriage on the campaign trail, including that they had considered getting an abortion. That prompted a rare public statement from Kardashian on her husband’s mental health, asking for “compassion and empathy” at the time. West did not attend Kardashian’s 40th-birthday island getaway, just weeks before the election, but did send a hologram of her late father, Robert Kardashian. Since then, reporting on the state of the couple’s relationship has swayed from claims that they weren’t living together and were splitting time with their children to claims that they were attempting to mend their marriage in counseling.

Kardashian kicked off the New Year by retaining celebrity divorce attorney Laura Wasser, who TMZ reports made the divorce filing. Just a week ago, Kardashian was spotted without her wedding ring, while West was spotted wearing his on February 17. That day, a source told People that West was “not doing well,” adding, “he knows that the marriage is over, and there’s nothing that can be done right now. He also knows what he is losing in Kim.”

The news comes after the final season of Keeping Up With the Kardashians wrapped filming. While West was not featured in the trailer, the season (premiering March 18 on E!) will reportedly tackle the buildup to their divorce.

My baby had a baby and he's everything we prayed for'' Banky W celebrates his wife Adesua as she turns a year older

Singer, Bankole Wellington aka Banky W is in a celebratory mood as his wife of three years, Adesua, turns 35 today, February 22.

 

In a post shared on his IG page, the singer who welcomed his first child, a boy with wife,Adesua a month ago, showered her with praises and also expressed his undying love for her. 

 

Happy birthday to my lady, my love and Purpose Partner,
My world, my wife and Baby Mama.
I didn't think it was possible for you to be more beautiful than you already were... but I was wrong.
Because you're not just beautiful, you're strong.
You're grace and favour personified, and you're so much more.

Words cannot properly express how grateful I am for you, how much I love you, or what we've been through.
I'm thankful that you're mine
And that God made everything beautiful in His time
He turned our tears into triumph, and our loss into laughter
He's changed our lives forever, here's to the next (and best) chapter
Nothing I can say or do can top what He gave us
My baby had a baby and he's everything we prayed for

@adesuaetomi
Happy birthday "Mama Zaiah"
I love you SCATTER.

Niger state governor receives rescued abducted travelers (photos)

The Niger state governor, Abubakr Bello, received the 21 abducted travelers who were rescued from captivity on Sunday, February 21The 21 passengers were abducted by the bandits, while traveling from Kontagora to Minna on 14 February.

 

See more photos of them at the government house below..

 

 

#14thHeadies: Fireboy Sweeps Awards As Omah Lay Wins Next Rated; Wizkid, Simi Win (See Full List Of Winners)

Fireboy was the biggest winner at the 14th Headies on Sunday night, snagging five awards — including the ‘Best R&B Single’, ‘Best R&B Album’, ‘Headies revelation’, ‘Best Pop Album’ and ‘Album Of The Year categories.

Music newcomer, Omay Lay has pulled the biggest wins in the industry by clinching the juicy Next Rated award at the 14th edition of Headies.

Omaha Lay was nominated for the category alongside Bella Shmurda, Tems, Oxlade.

The young music star came to prominence in 2020 after the success of his EP, “Get Layd” on streaming platforms.

The Next Rated award at the annual Headies is a highly coveted prize won by the ‘upcoming’ act who has shown the most promise in the year in review.

The winner also gets a car and joins an influential ‘alumni’ of previous superstar winners.

The 14th edition of The Headies, a Nigerian music awards show, held at Eko Hotels and Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos.

The red carpet began at 5pm while the main event commenced at 8 pm.

It was hosted by Bovi, a comedian; and Nancy Isime, an actress.

Other winners include Wizkid, who took ‘Artiste of the Year’, Badboytimz, who snagged the ‘Rookie of the Year’ and Simi who wins the ‘Songwriter of the Year’.

However, the year-in-review is between July 2019 and September 2020.

See the full list of winners below;

BEST RECORDING OF THE YEAR

A non-voting category for the best recording (that meets the judges’ requirements of excellence; songwriting, production, rendition) by an artiste or group in the year under review.

OZYMANDIAS – BRYMO
SMILE – WIZKID FEAT. HER
WONDERFUL – BURNA BOY
DREAMER – FIREBOY DML
GHOST TOWN – WURLD

 

BEST POP SINGLE

A voting category for the best pop single in year under review (by single individual or group).

BILLIONAIRE – TENI
NOBODY – DJ NEPTUNE FEAT. JOEBOY & MR. EAZI.
LADY – REMA
FEM – DAVIDO
JORO – WIZKID
SKELETUN – TEKNO

 

SONG OF THE YEAR

A voting category for the most popular song in the year under review.

FEM – DAVIDO
NOBODY – DJ NEPTUNE FEAT. JOEBOY & MR. EAZI
JORO – WIZKID
MAFO – NAIRA MARLEY
DUDUKE – SIMI

 

PRODUCER OF THE YEAR

An individual responsible for producing the most acclaimed song or album in the year under review.

PHEELZ – ‘BILLIONAIRE’ BY TENI
SPAX – ‘AWAY’ BY OXLADE
KEL P – ‘PULL UP’ BY BURNA BOY
SARZ – ‘MAD’ BY SARZ & WURLD

 

BEST RAP ALBUM

A non-voting category for the best album by a rap artiste or group in year under review.

GOD’S ENGINEERING – AQ
ILLY CHAPO X – ILLBLISS
YPSZN2 – PSYCHO YP
CULT! – PAYBAC IBORO
THE ERIGMA II – ERIGGA

 

BEST R&B ALBUM

A category for the best r&b album in the year under review (by single individual or group).

1. LAUGHTER, TEARS AND GOOSEBUMPS – FIREBOY DML

2. I LIKE GIRLS WITH TROBUL – SARZ & WURLD

3. KING – PRAIZ

4. BOO OF THE BOOLESS – CHIKE

5. CELIA – TIWA SAVAGE

 

BEST ALTERNATIVE ALBUM

A category for the best Alternative album in the year under review (by single individual or group).

YELLOW – BRYMO
LUCID – ASA
THE LIGHT – BEZ
PIONEERS – DRB LASGIDI
ROOTS – THE CAVEMEN

 

BEST POP ALBUM

A category for the best pop album in the year under review (by single individual or group).

APOLLO – FIREBOY DML
AFRICAN GIANT – BURNA BOY
A GOOD TIME – DAVIDO
WOMAN OF STEEL – YEMI ALADE
AFRO POP VOL. 1 – ADEKUNLE GOLD

 

BEST MUSIC VIDEO
A voting category for the best conceptualist, best directed and most exciting video in the year under review. This award goes to the video director.

1. ELI – FIREBOY DML BY CLARENCE PETERS

2. 1 MILLI – DAVIDO BY DIRECTOR K

3. SMILE – WIZKID BY MEJI ALABI

4. BILLIONAIRE – TENI BY TG OMORI

5. SHEKERE – YEMI ALADE BY OVIE ETSEYATSE

 

BEST R&B SINGLE
A category for the best r&b single in the year under review (by a single individual or group).

UNDER THE SKY – PRAIZ
DUDUKE – SIMI
MAD – SARZ & WURLD
BAD INFLUENCE – OMAH LAY
TATTOO – FIREBOY DML
DANGEROUS LOVE – TIWA SAVAGE

 

BEST COLLABORATION

A voting category for the best r&b, pop or hip-hop collaborative track (including cameos).

KNOW YOU – LADIPOE FEAT. SIMI
NOBODY – DJ NEPTUNE FEAT. JOEBOY & MR. EAZI
SWEET IN THE MIDDLE – DAVIDO FEAT. NAIRA MARLEY, ZLATAN & WURLD
DON’T CALL ME BACK – JOEBOY FEAT. MAYORKUN
TOTORI – ID CABASA FEAT. WIZKID & OLAMIDE
GET THE INFO – PHYNO FEAT. PHENOM & FALZ

 

BEST RAP SINGLE

A voting category for a single (released on-air) recording of a rap song.

OGB4IG – REMINISCE
SHUT UP – BLAQBONEZ
COUNTRY – ILLBLISS
GET THE INFO – PHYNO, FALZ & PHENOM
BOP DADDY – FALZ FEAT. MS. BANKS

 

BEST VOCAL PERFORMANCE(MALE)

A non-voting category for the single male artiste with the most outstanding vocal performance on a single song or album.

WURLD – GHOST TOWN
CHIKE – FORGIVE
PRAIZ – UNDER THE SKY
COHBAMS – PLENTI
NONSO AMADI – WHAT MAKES YOU SURE
JOHNNY DRILLE – COUNT ON YOU

 

BEST VOCAL PERFORMANCE (FEMALE)

A non-voting category for the single female artiste with most outstanding vocal performances on a single song or album.

SIMI – NO LONGER BENEFICIAL
LINDSEY ABUDEI – ONE ON THE OUTSIDE
NINIOLA – ADDICTED
J-DESS – CHI EFO
YEMI ALADE – LAI LAI
IMANSE – AJALA

 

NEXT RATED

This category is a voting category for the most promising act in the year under review.

TEMS
OMAH LAY
OXLADE
BELLA SHMURDA

 

HEADIES REVELATION

A voting category for the best new artiste with a debut album adjudged to be outstanding in terms of artistic quality and impact within the year under review.

VICTOR AD
FIREBOY DML
JOEBOY
TENI
REMA
CHIKE

 

LYRICIST ON THE ROLL

A non-voting category for the rap artiste with the best lyrical depth and performance on a single song or album.

AQ – EUNICE
BLAQBONEZ – DEFINE RAP 2
MI ABAGA – TRINITY
ILLBLISS – COUNTRY
PHENOM – GET THE INFO
PHYNO – SPEAK LIFE

 

BEST STREET-HOP ARTISTE

A voting category for the artiste whose songs are inspired by the streets. Such song should captain lingua, which may also be originated by the artiste and popular on the street.

NAIRA MARLEY & YOUNG JOHN – MAFO
MAYORKUN – GENG
REMINISCE FEAT. OLAMIDE & NAIRA MARLEY – INSTAGRAM
RUDEBOY – AUDIO MONEY
IVD & ZLATAN – BOLANLE
OLAMIDE – PAWON

 

BEST ‘ALTERNATIVE’ SONG
A voting category for the artiste whose songs reflect any form or style of music which falls outside the mainstream of recent or past popular musical trends.

CORNER – LADY DONLY FEAT. VANJESS & THE CAVEMEN
I WONDER – MOELOGO
BITTER – DEENA ADE
ANITA – THE CAVEMEN
MONEY DEVOTION – GBASKY
GOD SAVE THE QUEEN – OLU

 

ALBUM OF THE YEAR
A voting category for the best album (solo or group) in year under review, that meets judges’ requirements of excellence (songwriting, production, rendition and impact).

AFRICAN GIANT – BURNA BOY
APOLLO – FIREBOY DML
AFRO POP VOL. 1 – ADEKUNLE GOLD
YELLOW – BRYMO
BOO OF THE BOOLESS – CHIKE

ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

Most critically and commercially adjudged artiste in the year under review. Overall most successful artiste in the year under review.

BURNA BOY
DAVIDO
WIZKID
MAYORKUN
TIWA SAVAGE

AFRICAN ARTISTE RECOGNITION

A non-Nigerian award category for an individual African artiste or group with the most outstanding achievement, impact and infiltration into the Nigerian music scene in the year under review.

MASTER KG
KUAMI EUGENE
SAUTI SOL
SHAATA WALE
STONEBWOY

 

HEADIES’ VIEWER’S CHOICE
A voting category to award the fan’s favorite artiste with the most digital tractions (downloads, views, streams) in the year under review.

DAVIDO
OMAH LAY
BURNA BOY
FALZ
FIREBOY DML
MAYORKUN
DJ NEPTUNE

WIZKID

 

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR:
A voting category for the rookie of the year who has had a successful year musically, with the absence of an album in the year under review.

OLAKIRA
ALPHA P
JAMOPYPER
ZINOLEESKY
BAD BOY TIMZ

 

SONGWRITER OF THE YEAR:

A non-voting category for the writer of a song (that meets the judges’ requirements of excellence, composition, arrangement, rendition) in the year under review.

SIMISOLA BOLATITO OGUNLEYE (SIMI – DUDUKE)

ADEDAMOLA ADEFOLAHAN (FIREBOY DML – DREAMER)
DAMINI OGULU (BURNA BOY – WAY TOO BIG)
STANLEY OMAH DIDIA (OMAH LAY – BAD INFLUENCE)
SADIQ ONIFADE (WURLD – GHOST TOWN
ADEKUNLE KOSOKO (1 MILLION – DAVIDO)

SPECIAL RECOGNITION:
A special recognition to an individual(s) for excellence and outstanding impact to the entertainment industry.

EEDRIS ABDULKAREEM

TIMAYA

HALL OF FAME:
A special recognition to an individual for excellence and outstanding impact to the entertainment industry.

KING SUNNY ADE

BREAKING: NAF Releases Names Of Officers Killed In Abuja Crash

Daramola said the Air Force expressed condolences to the families of the victims who have been notified of the tragic occurrence.

 

Scene of the incident

The Nigerian Air Force has released the names of those who died in the ill-fated flight that crashed in Abuja.

The force released the names seven of its officers who died when its aircraft, Beechcraft KingAir B350i, crashed in Abuja on Sunday.

The jet en route Minna in Niger State crashed close to the runway of the Abuja airport after reporting engine failure.

In a statement, NAF Director of Public Relations and Information, Air Commodore Ibikunle Daramola, said the Chief of the Air Staff, Air Vice Marshal IO Amao, has ordered an immediate probe of the accident.

Daramola said the Air Force expressed condolences to the families of the victims who have been notified of the tragic occurrence.

The NAF spokesman also said the officers were “scheduled to conduct surveillance missions over Niger State and its environs in connection with the concerted efforts to secure the release of the students/staff abducted from the Government Science College Kagara, Niger State”.

He gave the names of the officers as:

Flight Lieutenant Haruna Gadzama (Captain).

Flight Lieutenant Henry Piyo (Co-Pilot).

Flying Officer Micheal Okpara (Airborne Tactical Observation System (ATOS) Specialist).

Warrant Officer Bassey Etim (ATOS Specialist).

Flight Sergeant Olasunkanmi Olawunmi (ATOS Specialist).

Sergeant Ugochukwu Oluka (ATOS Specialist).

Aircraftman Adewale Johnson (Onboard Technician).

Details later…

Senator Okorocha arrested for unsealing hotel seized by the Imo state government

The immediate past governor of Imo state, Senator Rochas Okorocha, has been arrested by the police after he led a team of his supporters to reopen the Royal Palm Estate sealed by the state Government.

 

 

Okorocha who was accompanied by his son-in-law, Uche Nwosu, broke the keys used to seal the hotel which belongs to his wife, Nkechi.

 

The state government had last Friday, February 19, recovered the Royal Palm Estate along Akachi road. 

 

The seizure, according to the team led by Commissioner for Lands, Enyinnaya Onuegbu, was in compliance with the directive of the Imo State gazette on the report of the Judicial Commission of Enquiry on the recovery of Lands and other related matters.

 

Okorocha is currently being detained at the state police headquarters. Police sources say he will be charged to court tomorrow February 22nd

BREAKING: 'Pilot Complained Of Engine Failure Minutes Before Abuja Crash' - Source Reveals

The official said there been regular flights from Abuja to Minna since the abduction of the Kangara students last week.

 

Scene of the crash

It has been revealed that the pilot of the Nigerian Air Force Intelligence Reconnaissance Aircraft which crashed in Abuja, on Sunday, complained of engine failure barely moments after takeoff.

A source at the control tower revealed this on the strict condition of anonymity.

The official said there been regular flights from Abuja to Minna since the abduction of the Kangara students last week.

The source said, “The aircraft was on its way to Minna. Moments after, on getting to Bassa Local Government Area, he informed the control tower that he had experienced an engine failure.

“He was advised to return to the Abuja airport immediately but it crash-landed.”

When asked if the identities of those on board had been ascertained, the official said they were in the process of doing so.

“There have been frequent flights to Niger State since the abduction of the schoolkids. Last week some ministers also flew. Soon, we will know their identities,” he said.

Nigerian Air Force Plane Crashes in Abuja, Six Dead

 A statement  from the country’s Accident Investigation Bureau (AIC) stated that “the Air Force NAF201 AB350 aircraft departed Abuja at 1033UTC with 6 persons on board including 2 crew.

PLANE CRASH 3

“Aircraft reported engine failure at time 1039 and crashed landed on the final approach path of Abuja Runway 22 at time 1048UTC,” the statement read.

It added that “fire services are already at the scene of the accident. All 6 persons onboard reported dead.”

Nigeria’s Minister of Aviation, Hadi Sirika also confirmed the incident.

PLANE CRASH

“A military aircraft King Air 350 has just crashed short of our Abuja runway after reporting engine failure en-route Minna. It appears to be fatal. We should remain calm & wait for the outcome of investigation by the military, while we pray for the departed soul/souls if any,” the minister said on Twitter.

Coiled from Arise Naija 

Is Zuka Dating Rita?

LARRY ZUkA, REGINA DANIELS MOTHER and the LOVE TRIANGLE. 

 The rumour about Larry Zuka and Regina Daniel's mother Rita continues to thicken, this time with a twist as  another billionaire is said to have warned Zuka to stay of his woman. (Rita)..  

Suggestive pictures have emerged given credence to this rumour, The folk song star based In US was alover her recently when in the country, sneaking in and out of her Asaba residence. 

     The twist in the gist is him getting warned on his Twitter handle @larzuka by a self acclaimed billionaire to back off from his woman.

Rita has however not made a statement since all these blew up. We watch.